Governor Mark Sanford, his wife and two of their sons have flown to London on a two-week European vacation. The Governor says the vacation is another step to repair his family following his admission to an affair.A state Senate hearing takes place in Columbia this afternoon to examine Sanford’s trips, on the question of any improper spending of tax money that might be indicated. Other than that, the ruckus around the governor’s personal life has quieted down.
But what is in store in the Sanfords’ future? In similar situations, do the couples stay together?
Dr. Roger Rhoades is a relationship therapist with the PACE Center in Spartanburg, and has appeared regularly on numerous national talk shows.
First of all, Rhoades says what happened to Governor Sanford is really not that unusual, that he sees it all the time, when a man, or woman, is struck hormonally or emotionally, often both, when they’re at a particular point in their individual lives. “They don’t think well. None of them makes standard judgements. They’re very self-destructive. And he’s been doing it on a national level with the media. But everyday, you go to church and you see someone, even a deacon, do something very similar, and everyone says, ‘Man, I can’t this happened to this guy.’ ” [Read more...]






